Unfortunately, unfaithful spouses are a frequent occurrence. But if the husband has changed how to behave correctly, most women do not know. And it is unlikely that anyone will be able to tell in advance exactly how he will manifest himself when he learns of such an unpleasant incident. However, it has long been known that there is no ordinary friendship between two people of different sexes. Even if both talk about it, it’s worth understanding: where there is friendship, there is sympathy. And she, as you know, can easily grow into something more.
Step one
If the husband has changed how to behave, each woman decides for herself.
However, do not waste your nerves. The first thing to do is to understand whether the information is reliable. Think, remember how relationships with your spouse have been built lately. If this fact turns out to be true, then try to understand the reason. If at home sexually everything is in order, then most likely he was looking for moral support on the side. To solve any problem requires its awareness, especially if the husband has changed. How to behave? Talk to your husband, but the conversation should not be an angry and accusing monologue, it should turn out to be constructive. Do it in a similar situation to a woman
it is very difficult, so prepare yourself in advance: scroll through your head several times how the dialogue can develop approximately, try to get used to it as much as possible. If you do not want to end the relationship, then do not use phrases about the distance from each other, put your spouse in front of a choice.
Second step
Of course, it is impossible to solve the problem quickly if the husband is cheating. How to behave further? Even if this act turned out to be momentary weakness, it is necessary to begin to act. For example, you should find out who "encroached" on family peace and prosperity. This does not mean that it is necessary to calculate the opponent and grab her hair. It is necessary to very carefully influence the man: if it turned out, for example, that this is the first wife, then it is worth leading to the fact that he can communicate with the child, and relations with the ex-wife hurt you. You should try to focus more on your feelings, pronounce them.
Step three
It is very important to cope with your emotions if the husband has changed. How to behave if you always
want to cry or swear? Do not hold back your feelings. I want to cry - cry, you are angry - turn the husband’s photo card into shreds, burn it. However, to show such impulses is better when no one sees. Do not share with your friends and relatives what happened in the family. Indeed, in the maelstrom of feelings that have swept over you, you cannot understand how your future life will develop; perhaps everything will be fine.
Fourth step
If you decide that the family is more expensive, realize that you still love, then deciding what to do if your husband is cheating, take your time. Give him support. With a serious relationship, your spouse will not be able to live long on two fronts. Remember that psychologists have proved that if a man did not leave in the first year of adultery, then it is even more difficult for him to take this step. Therefore, if he asked to wait, to give him time to understand himself, then it is worth doing.
Of course, the advice given above is based on rationality. However, how to behave if the husband is cheating, more often the woman does not determine, since emotions and resentment come to the fore. If there is no strength to cope with them, consult a psychologist, with it you will decide what kind of behavior will be optimal, learn to control your anger and feelings.