Marriage is the desire of a man and woman to legitimize their relationship. For girls, the word "marriage" means happiness, but for many guys this is the biggest fear. Why do opinions differ? And what is it really?
Marriage is an integral part of the future of every young girl. For some, the stamp in the passport is a moral satisfaction, for others - a feeling of confidence, protection. This is a happy ticket to the future for a girl, a guy and their future children.
Marriage in Russia is celebrated cheerfully and on a grand scale. Relatives and friends of the future newlyweds are notified by wedding invitations, which indicate the date of the celebration.
The concept of “marriage” for some girls is simply a happy family union that does not require any evidence. The main thing for them is feelings. Such a marriage is called civil.
What is a civil marriage? The concept of "civil marriage" means the union of two people who have not confirmed their relationship by legal marriage. Currently, 35% of young people prefer to live in a civil marriage. And the point is not only the great responsibility that some fear, but also the savings on the wedding, the freedom of relations and the absence of various property problems.
People living together in a civil marriage can get to know each other a little better and determine whether they will get along in the future. Indeed, in the first period of relations it is difficult to understand how the future family life will turn out . And living every day in the same house, civilian husband and wife can understand whether they suit each other or not. This is the first plus of such a marriage.
The second plus of civil marriage is the savings. Currently, in order to play a worthy and magnificent wedding, the couple will have to pay a pretty penny. If young people decide on a civil marriage, they can spend their money on something else.
The third plus is freedom of relationship. Civil husband and wife, agreeing to an unregistered relationship, psychologically gave themselves freedom. Lovers at a subconscious level understand that if a relationship breaks down, they can safely scatter. In this case, there will be no legal red tape regarding the division of property in accordance with applicable laws.
The concept of "marriage" some men perceive as complete confidence in the future. Having officially married, they think that their legal wives will not go away from them now, which means that their life has been a success, and they can afford to spend free time with friends or even in front of the TV. And they stop paying attention to their wife as they did before. If the marriage is civil, the wife has great advantages. She is free and independent of her husband, and if something does not suit her in family life, the spouse may leave. Therefore, many find it inappropriate to marry.
The concept of "marriage" for many is still a legal union of a man and a woman, which is aimed at creating a family, giving birth to children. It gives rise to their personal and property rights. One thing can be said - marriage is the union of two lovers who are tired of loneliness.
Despite all the definitions, the concept of "marriage" is interpreted by each person differently. A few years ago, marriage was considered mandatory, and if the girl was alone for a long time, it was believed that something was wrong with her. But now marriage is still everyone’s personal choice.