The plot palette of dreams, as you know, is limitless and sometimes asks us riddles, the solution of which we hope to find only in the works of the most experienced and respected specialists. For example, suppose that a sweet girl (and others, as you know, never happens in the world) happened to change a guy in a night vision. Why is there such an embarrassment, because in reality it doesn’t even come to her mind (let's hope)? Well, let's try to figure it out.
Pay attention to the details of what you see!
First of all, let us turn to the “Family Dream Book”, one name of which suggests that its compilers, like no one else, are close to questions relating to heart ties and interpersonal relationships. And indeed, regarding what the guy dreams about cheating in a dream, they provide very detailed explanations. First of all, the authors draw the attention of readers to a very important, in their opinion, circumstance: where exactly did the moral fall of this victim of his own lust take place - at home or in some other place.
I must say that in both cases nothing good shines for her (and rightly so, of course), but if, to top her troubles, the libertine brought her secret admirer home, then in reality she will soon have serious domestic problems. Which ones, the authors do not specify, since in each case they are individual. As for cheating in other places, they won’t just get away with it: the poor thing (we will still be condescending to her) will face such severe emotional shocks ahead that she will have to resort to the help of specialists.
Sleep as a reflection of mental state
The authors of “Family Dream Book” are also considering the question of why she dreams that the girl cheated on her boyfriend not with a man, but with one of her friends. In our "advanced" century, such relationships are by no means uncommon and have long ceased to cause general condemnation. Here, in this case, the dreamer is recommended to thoroughly understand their sexual inclinations, and already in accordance with them to build further life.
Of course, all of the above applies primarily to girls who in reality have reassured their boyfriend with a promise of marriage. To all other persons not bound by vows of love, these interpretations are not relevant. The only exceptions are those who are often haunted by visions of lesbian love. The authors strongly recommend that they consult a psychotherapist, since such dreams may indicate a certain pathology, which is very difficult to cope without the help of a specialist.
We listen to the opinion of the expert
The Austrian psychoanalyst Sigmund Freud (photo below) could not remain aloof from such an exciting topic, who saw in the intimate sphere of human life almost the basis of all his thoughts and actions. Arguing about what he dreams of changing a guy, and equally the groom, husband or anyone else with whom the promise of fidelity connects, he gives an interpretation of several plot options of what he saw.
First of all, the respected master writes that if a woman or a very young girl allows herself such a liberty in a dream with a stranger, this indicates her doubts about her own attractiveness and sexuality. In reality, the dreamer seems to torment herself with unreasonable experiences, since it seems to her that she is deprived of the ability to arouse desire in men.
The author also attaches great importance to those emotions that the traitor experienced in a dream. If, indulging in forbidden love, she felt remorse, then this is a bad sign - in reality she is too cold with her chosen one. At the same time, the absence of negative feelings in a dream portends a strong relationship in real life.
The third is superfluous both in a dream and in reality
Freud also considers other plot options, for example, why do you dream that you are cheating on a guy or husband, and he suddenly appears and willingly becomes the third participant in the sexual scene? Without giving a moral assessment of such actions (if they happened in reality), the master only warns that in a dream this is a very bad sign that can portend health problems, and their appearance will be connected precisely with the intimate side of life. A woman who sees something similar in a dream is advised to refrain from casual sex, and if it is beyond her strength, then take precautions that even schoolchildren now know about.
Stay away from temptations
It is very useful to look for answers to questions of interest to us in the "Common Dream Book." In particular, on its pages you can find a warning that if in a dream it happens to change a husband, groom or just a lover, then in reality one should avoid temptations that can lead to significant material losses. In particular, it is not recommended to invest in projects that promise quick and easy profits, enter into dubious transactions, and also purchase expensive items from random suppliers.
The drafters also sanctify the question of why the guy dreams of changing his ex-husband or a previously rejected lover. In this case, they give two different interpretations. According to one of them, the dream suggests that in real life this lady (or girl) has a sufficiently developed intuition and can trust her inner voice in everything. However, another explanation is immediately provided: if you dream that you are cheating on a guy with a “former”, then this is a harbinger of some future actions for which you will have to go through remorse.
Comments overseas dream interpreter
Since girls all over the world sometimes have erotic dreams in which they break the oaths of fidelity, this is also reflected in dream books compiled by their compatriots. Let's open, for example, the work of a famous American interpreter, hiding under the pseudonym Miss Hasse.
Having set out to explain to readers what the guy was dreaming of changing, the learned lady wrote at the beginning of the last century that such a vision, although it may bring some pleasure, is fraught with the danger of a family conflict, which the dreamer herself will provoke. However, such a turn of events does not have the character of a fatal inevitability, but is completely preventable, if only the girl is careful and not climb on the rampage, as they say.
In addition, the overseas compiler informs her readers about what she dreams of changing a guy, husband, groom, lover, etc. with one of her closest relatives. It turns out that such a plot portends unprecedented success in real life. As a true American, Miss Hasse connects him with career growth or business success.
Anonymous, but very knowledgeable author
Among the foreign compilers of dream books, which paid attention to the question of what the guy dreams of changing, the composition of another author deserves attention, who did not want to reveal his true name and only indicated on the title page that he was a “French interpreter”. The author approaches the coverage of this problem very thoroughly and recommends first of all to pay attention to the details of what he saw.
So, if the dream of treason was only in kisses with an imaginary lover, then in reality the girl is better to part with her real gentleman, as feelings for him have clearly cooled down. But at the same time, the sexual act seen in a dream with a stranger has nothing to do with her true heart inclinations, and does not even promise any complications. On the contrary, according to an anonymous author, he is a harbinger of fame and success.
It is curious that hearing in a dream from a guy a confession of perfect treason is a good omen for a girl, promising her a long and lasting relationship with this person. Since the French have always set the tone in heart affairs and were considered recognized experts in them, we will not argue with the compiler of the dream book, but we will take into account all of the above.
Night dreams and real personal life
Willingly sharing information on this topic and compilers of the nowadays popular "Gypsy Dream Book". Many young people tormented by the question: “Why is it a dream that I cheated on a guy?”, They are trying to find the answer on its pages. Let's face it: the authors do not tell them anything encouraging. In their opinion, a betrayal committed in a dream suggests that in real life the dreamer would not mind letting an unexpected guest into her heart.
At the same time, according to the compilers, this is a signal that relations with those who are entitled to rely on her fidelity in reality are at a standstill and are on the verge of breaking. What to do in this case, the girl herself must decide, because nobody's advice will not help her.
However, not everything is so sad. The same authors inform their readers that if, following the betrayal, they also dream of the thrashing made for it, then in reality their real life will turn out to be the best possible, and those to whom they were unfaithful in a dream will be the happiest of mortals. As the saying goes: "Their mouth ..."
What is the voice of the people talking about?
In this article, we cited the statements of only some compilers of dream books, giving an interpretation of night dreams, sometimes visiting both very young girls and women with family life experience. The people, on this occasion, have a very definite opinion, in many respects in tune with what experts say.
First of all, it is generally accepted that a dream of treason is a warning from above that in real life one should avoid rash acts, especially those that are related to the intimate sphere, since their consequences are sometimes very deplorable. Of course, such advice should be followed regardless of the nature and plot of one’s night visions.
Do not rely on dreams!
At the same time, one often hears that treason seen in a dream can promise unexpected luck in real life - we already talked about this in one of the previous chapters. However, even the most convinced optimists say that this is a very unreliable reason for joy and for real positive, the plot of the dream should contain many specific details, and about which ones, there are very different and sometimes completely contradictory opinions.