It is believed that only women are difficult to bring to orgasm. And men simply cannot have problems with this. And if suddenly you are faced with such an unpleasant unexpectedness as the lack of an orgasm in your partner, you should not panic and assume that you simply do not attract and do not satisfy him. Instead, think about why a man cannot end.
There may be several reasons for this phenomenon, and believe me, they are definitely not related to your unattractiveness - in this case, he would probably not have begun
sexual intercourse. And the first reason why a man cannot finish is becoming such a bad habit as drinking alcohol. When exposed to alcohol, sensations can become dull, because nerve receptors in this state work differently than on a sober head. And therefore, perhaps your lover just went over a little, which, in general, will not prevent him from restoring his reputation as a noble lover the next time.
Another extremely common reason why a man does not finish for a long time is stress. It can be both constant hassle at work, and banal
chronic fatigue. And depression and the use of antidepressants lead to a similar result. In this case, you should talk with your partner, find out what worries him so much that it can affect your sex life. But to treat such fatigue with the help of vigorous sexual intercourse is not worth it. Instead, it is better to organize a
man’s favorite vacation, which does not require him so much stress. Go to the bathhouse, give him a massage, watch a
positive film together, and even just do nothing - it can also help recover from stress.
Sometimes the answer to the question of why a man cannot finish lies in his own psychological problems. There is such a kind of perfectionist men who, in their sex life, focus on achieving a partner's orgasm. In this pursuit of female pleasure, they are so weaned from their own feelings that experiencing an orgasm for themselves becomes a real problem for them. Check if your friend belongs to this category of men, and if so, it may be worthwhile to tell him how to please you personally. And after that, find out what he likes and offer to switch roles in bed - to experience an orgasm for both.
It is extremely rare that the reason why a man cannot finish lies in the field of medicine. However, there is such a diagnosis - anorgasmia. It is put exclusively by an andrologist based on a survey of a man if problems with sex arise regularly enough. The cause may be diseases of the genitourinary organs, problems with the endocrine system, congenital anomalies, taking certain medications, and nervous breakdown. Depending on the identified cause, the doctor prescribes appropriate treatment.
So if suddenly your partner could not experience an orgasm, before making hasty conclusions, worrying or thinking how to make a man finish, think about the reasons why this problem arose, and only then look for ways to solve it.