Human relations - the world is fragile, complex, far from always clear. Itās hard for us to understand ourselves, and a strangerās soul, indeed according to a proverb, sometimes turns into continuous darkness. And now, someone very recently close to us has become a stranger, the connecting threads break, people parted. But you wonāt erase the memories, they come to us without demand and most often at night, in dreams.
Our former and we are current
Once you suddenly dreamed of a former guy. Just like that, for no reason, for no reason. But nothing happens in the subconscious that manages dreams. And, if you think about it, there is always a logical explanation. For example, the day before you saw, heard, said, did something that was somehow associated with your former love. The result is obvious - he āvisitedā you in a dream. Or they met common acquaintances, chatted about this and that. We didnāt even talk about the past. But the subconscious mind worked, and the former guy dreamed.
Such a situation is even more logical if, over time, the heart wound did not heal and the feelings were not forgotten. Among us there are many subtle natures, monogamous people who will suffer all their lives, having lost their āself-self.ā And if such a girl dreamed of a former guy, then she constantly thinks about him, and these thoughts haunt her not only in reality, but also in a dream.
As a rule, we often dream of something that left a bright trace in reality, brought great joy or great sorrow. The brain is awake even when the body is sleeping. He is working through, comprehending the most diverse combinations of what has happened, intensely seeking a solution to pressing issues. Remember Mendeleev and his table or Mozart with the tune of "Requiem"! Here and here: the former guy dreamed - either you persistently look for ways of reconciliation, or ... Options of explanations can be picked up by a cart and a small cart, as they say.
What will the dream book tell us now?
If our usual logic is at an impasse, and you really want to understand a dream, dream books come to the rescue. Appearing several centuries ago, they often served as magic wands for young ladies in love and respectable ladies, and even now they are very popular. True, they can interpret the same dream differently, but after reading a few explanations, you can choose something middle, trust your own intuition. In addition, dream books take into account the otherworldly aspect, which for us, living here and now, is beyond and incomprehensible.
What will say the dream book dreamed the former guy?
- In this case, the book advises you to be more careful in your current relationship, as they are at stake. You unconsciously compare the past lover with the present and not in favor of the latter - such a comparison can not last long. Therefore, you have to decide and either throw the āformerā out of your head, or build new relationships.
- If you dreamed of a former guy who is not alive, then options are possible. The deceased saves you from trouble in a dream, protects you from danger - pulls you out from the rubble, from a burning house, etc. - in real life you will avoid big troubles, you will be insured against accidents. And if he stares intently, as if he wants to give a sign, you should also be more attentive to the surrounding reality, listen to yourself. Indeed, between the āthatā world and āthisā the borders are very arbitrary. And while in life there were close spiritual ties between you, they will continue after death. Therefore, the deceased is really trying to warn you, to provide some information.
- The person with whom they parted, in a dream, asks you for an object or do you speak with him on the phone, do you hear his voice? In this case, he is trying to reach out to you. Most likely, he just needs to talk with you, speak out - obviously, most of all he wants to return his lost love. And if everything between you was not so bad - why not give yourself and him a chance?
And if you havenāt seen anything like your dream in the dream book, donāt be upset! Life will tell you the right answer and give practical advice!